Can We Ask For Money Instead Of Gifts For Our Wedding?
Is It OK to Ask for Money As a Wedding Gift?
Yes. There’s no rule saying a couple cannot ask for money as a wedding gift. These days many couples don’t stick with tradition when communicating their wishes and desires for their big day.
How to Ask for Money for a Wedding?
How do you politely ask for money instead of gifts? We’ve listed the best tips on how to ask for money instead of gifts for a wedding.
Wedding Website Link
You can add a section to your wedding site about your gift preferences. And link it to your wedding invitations. Mention that you would love any monetary gift or honeymoon contributions.
For example, “Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for. If you want to go down that route, a monetary contribution towards our future plans would be deeply appreciated.”
Cash Registry Websites
Instead of a traditional wedding registry, opt for a cash registry website. It helps eliminate the awkwardness of asking how you want to receive the money. Here are some of our favorites.
Spread the Word Through Close Friends and Family Members
Tell your close friends, family members, and even your wedding party that you’d prefer cash and why. Then, encourage them to spread the word. Guests will likely ask what they should get you, so it’s a great chance to mention your wishes.
Card Box at the Reception
Not all guests will use a wedding cash registry. They are more likely to bring cash or checks to your reception. You can set up a card box at the reception and ask your best man or maid of honor to check it periodically.
Wedding Website FAQs
Communicate your preferences clearly and politely by creating a dedicated FAQ section on your website. We have outlined some key FAQs you can include.
Can I give a physical gift instead of money?
While we appreciate the sentiment, we kindly request that you contribute through our designated wedding gift fund. However, if you have a unique idea or suggestion, please contact us directly.
What will our monetary gift be used for?
The monetary gifts we receive will enhance our honeymoon, set up a new home, and contribute to our savings for future plans and aspirations.
Is there a specific monetary amount we should gift?
There is no set amount. We are genuinely grateful for any contribution you feel comfortable making.
Can I ask for money through wedding invitations?
Never ask for money on your invitations. Otherwise, your guests will feel uncomfortable. Instead, leave your gift registry details on your wedding website.
Other Tips When Asking for Money Instead of Physical Gifts
- Instead of asking for money, use polite phrases like “We kindly request your blessings and contributions towards our future together.”
- Share briefly explaining your plans or goals, emphasizing how the monetary gifts will help you achieve them. This can help guests understand your decision and feel more comfortable contributing.
- Send personalized thank-you notes to all your guests, expressing your sincere appreciation for their presence and generosity.
Ask for money instead of traditional gifts with sensitivity, tact, and open communication to effectively convey your intentions to your guests. Be sure to share how you plan to use the money and thank them for their generosity.
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