How Many Groomsmen Should I Have At My Wedding?
How many groomsmen are normal for a wedding?
The number of groomsmen you want for your wedding is up to you. But if you’re having a big wedding, you can have up to 10 groomsmen. You can have 3 to 5 groomsmen for a smaller, informal wedding.
According to a Brides American Wedding study in 2018, there are often 5.3 groomsmen in an average wedding. So, you might have seen 0 to 10 groomsmen at the wedding you attended. But if you don’t want to manage a big group of groomsmen, 5 is enough to have the necessary support system.
Are 7 groomsmen too many? Or is 10 groomsmen a lot? The answer to how many wedding groomsmen you can have also lies in your guest count.
If you have 50 to 100 guests, you may need 2 to 4 groomsmen. For more than 100 guests, 5 to 8 groomsmen is a nice size. A group of groomsmen is already large, but it works for large weddings with over 200 guests.
Who Chooses Groomsmen?
The groom usually picks who will serve as groomsman. They can have their siblings, best friends, close friends, or relatives at the groom’s party. They also often choose their best man from this group.
Can a bride pick a groomsmen? Yes. There’s no hard rule against the brides choosing their friends, siblings, or anyone they know to serve in the wedding party.
How Do You Pick Groomsmen?
We give you some key considerations in deciding who should be your groomsmen.
Personal Relationships
Consider your personal relationships and the people you want to stand beside you on your big day. You can think of those with whom you share a close bond and who have played significant roles in your life. These could be family members, close friends, and mentors.
Wedding Venue and Logistics
If you’re getting married in a smaller venue, having a large wedding party might feel cramped. Conversely, a spacious venue accommodates a larger number of groomsmen comfortably. Also, consider the ceremony and reception venues, including the limitations or restrictions.
Budget Considerations
Groomsmen expenses can quickly add up to your budget. More groomsmen mean additional costs for tuxedos or suits, boutonnieres, or thank-you gifts.
Should the Number of Groomsmen be the Same as the Bridesmaids?
No. You don’t need to have an even wedding party. However, if you have a more traditional ceremony, you can have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen to keep things balanced at the altar.
What Should I Do with Non-Groomsmen Friends?
Not all of your friends can serve as groomsmen. But there are ways to make them more than just wedding guests. For example, you can assign them jobs like escorts and readers.
They can also make a toast, speak at the rehearsal dinner, or even perform during the reception. If you have a friend with creative talent, they can help you design the invitations or decorate the ceremony or reception venues.
When deciding the groomsmen count, approach your decision from a joyful and fresh standpoint. It’s better to slow down the process than rush the decision that you’ll regret. We know you’ll find the perfect number of groomsmen you’ll be happy with.
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